9 Stylish Tips: How to Differentiate the Groom from Groomsmen
Posted by Dimitra Designs on Dec 5th 2024
In today’s blog:
- Discover stylish ways to make the groom stand out from the groomsmen with unique attire and accessories.
- Learn tips like using different colors, patterns, and custom details to highlight the groom’s look.
- Get practical advice on tuxedo upgrades, personalized touches, and standout styling for the big day.
Planning a wedding is all about the details, small and large. One of the tiny details that is often overlooked is how to differentiate the groom from the groomsmen. If you’re stuck or unsure how to make them look cohesive to your wedding theme yet stand out from one another, these nine stylish tips will make your groom unmistakable on your wedding day!
Why It Matters: How to Differentiate the Groom from Groomsmen
A wedding is weeks, months, sometimes years of planning—where the day should come together like a dream come true. A wedding is about celebrating joy and love with one another, and your groom deserves to shine just as much as you do!
But how do you make the groom stand out amidst their entourage without breaking the harmonious looks you chose for the wedding party?
Start by exploring options like special accessories, unique colors, or personalized details that will set him, her, or them apart. These thoughtful little touches can help you quickly answer the question: how does the groom stand out from the groomsmen?
1. Upgrade the Groom’s Tuxedo or Suit
One of the most effective and visually arresting means to distinguish your groom from their groomsman is through the tuxedo or suit he will wear on your big day.
- Fabric Choices. To make your groom stand out, consider a luxe material like gorgeous velvet or a soft, sleek silk blend. Then for the groomsmen, opt for dressing them in more traditional fabrics like wool or polyester blends.
- Make the Colors Pop. Choose a bold yet elegant color, like deep burgundy or night-sky navy, for the groom and complement any neutral tones of the groomsmen's attire.
- Subtle, Elegant Patterns. A pinstripe suit, a hint of paisley, or a jacquard tuxedo adds exquisite texture and depth, an excellent way to differentiate the groom from the groomsmen's tuxedos.
How to Further Differentiate the Groom from the Groomsmen’s Tuxedos?
If you’ve already ordered the tuxedos or simply wish to let your groom, who may have chosen a more traditional suit, shine, here is a simple tweak: choose a shawl lapel for your groom and leave the notch lapels for the groomsmen.
2. Accessories with Meaningful Pieces
Another subtle yet compelling way to distinguish the groom from the groomsman is to use deeply meaningful accessories. For example:
- Boutonniere Upgrade: For your groom, consider having them wear a larger, more intricate, or more colorful flower arrangement that finely or boldly elevates his look.
- Unique Bowtie or Tie: Choose ties with patterns or colors that align with the groom's personality and allow him to stand out.
- Pocket Square Statement: A custom or monogrammed pocket square can make the groom's silhouette memorable and stand out.
3. Playful Vests and Shirt Variations
When planning on how to distinguish the groom from the groomsmen, consider the art of layering!
- Choose a vest color that is a contrasting color or fabric from the groomsmen.
- Consider a custom-tailored shirt with unique patterns, while the groomsmen wear more neutrals like white, light gray, or champagne.
4. Head-turning Footwear
Shoes, unfortunately, often go unnoticed, but when the right pair is worn, it can tie an entire look together and make it unique, allowing your groom to stand out compared to the groomsmen.
- Leather brogues or polished monk straps can set the groom apart effortlessly, while groomsmen can choose standardized options like oxfords.
- In recent fashion trends, black shoes give way to other beautiful colors like navy, brown, and oxblood. This is a great choice to make him prominent among the groomsmen.
5. Use Color Coordination to Stand Out
Another simple yet effective way to let him shine is through color coordination. For example, say you chose a beautiful traditional white theme with silver accents. You could:
- Have the groom wear a silver tuxedo (to fit the silver theme example).
- Choose a silver-colored tie or cummerbund
- Incorporate metallics, such as silver, in cufflinks, pocket squares, or the boutonniere while groomsmen stick to a neutral palette.
6. Personalize the Accessories for The Groom
Custom details explicitly tailored for him are a fantastic way to make your room look and feel special on their momentous day.
- Engrave your initials and the date on a pair of stunning cufflinks, a bracelet, or his favorite watch.
- Customize a leather belt with hand-stitching or embossed details unique to his personality, values, and tastes.
7. Hairstyle and Grooming
Personal grooming can significantly contribute to how separate the groom appears compared to their groomsman. Consider spoiling the groom, too, by:
- A professional's customized hairstyle or beard grooming session for the groom on their special day.
- A unique men's facial and spa-like treatment goes hand in hand with a fresh haircut!
8. Enthralling Outerwear
Everyone has a favorite season—and surprisingly, not all choose spring or summer! If you’re holding your wedding during late fall or early winter, you can ensure your groom looks different and chic from the groomsmen by outerwear.
- A tailored coat or blazer with unique details within the lining can easily set the groom apart.
- Adding a bold pattern, or an intricate monogram to the groom's coat can also immediately differentiate them from the groomsman.
9. A Grand Groom Entrance
As a bride, you can share the spotlight on your wedding day by having your groom have their own Grand Entrance!
- Use fun or dramatic lighting, his favorite music, or have the musicians play a wedding version of his favorite song and put the spotlight on him!
- Confetti or balloon drop, a flash dancing mob—the sky and your imagination are the limit when it comes to your groom's grand entrance.
Tying the Knot in Distinctive Dimitra Fashion
From Tuxedo colors, accessories, and customized monogram pocket squares—there are countless ways, big or small, that can help distinguish the groom from the groomsman. A thoughtful, meaningful approach to attire and details that represent you and your groom can make them stand out and ensure they feel celebrated on the biggest day of your lives!